By: Kindergarten teachers
Most of the parents wonder about how the “reward method” works or even concern about the outcome. Therefore, let’s discuss the “reward method.”
Behaviors are more likely to happen again when followed by a positive consequence like a reward. This is true for all behaviors, even those you don’t want to happen again. Rewards are important for many reasons because it can encourage a child’s good behaviors, increase their self-esteem, and the most important thing is reward can improve the relationship between parents and children.
There are several types of rewards and the most common type is social rewards which more powerful than material rewards. These are types of social rewards that can be done in daily routine:
- Affection – includes hugs, kisses, a high five, a smile, a pat on the back, or an arm around the shoulder.
- Praise – Praise happens when parents say things like “Great job,” “Way to go,” or “Good boy/girl.” However, specific (or labeled) praise tells a child exactly what behavior you liked. Examples of labeled praise are:
- “Great job playing quietly while I was on the telephone!”
- “You were a great helper when you put all your toys in the closet today!”
- Attention and Activities –Extra time with you or a special activity can be a powerful reward for young children. Some examples include playing a favorite game, reading a story, and helping with dinner. Other activities like going to the movies or the zoo can also be used, but these activities may not always be available or affordable.
Sources:
https://www.cdc.gov/parents/essentials/consequences/rewards.html
https://www.leadingturtle.com/how-can-we-reward-children-responsibly.html